Frank,
You're quite welcome to use them, of course.
Unfortunately, I don't know of any way to turn a Nebula off and on once it's been loaded. There are many features associated with SSC files and their textures that don't work in DSC files. It'd be really nice if they did.
For example, Beginning and Ending directives don't work in DSC files. Being able to select alternate textures or resolutions would be another major improvement. So would virtual textures, even if they could only be used on spheres.
One thing that is possible is to use a model that's visible only from one side. For example, you would not see the grid if you looked "down" from "above" the solar system (from the "northern" side), but it would be visible if you looked up from below (from the southern side).
Do you think that would be an acceptable solution?
Added somewhat later:
I've created
http://www.lns.cornell.edu/~seb/celestia/graticules-1sided-v2.zip
See
http://www.lns.cornell.edu/~seb/celestia/graticules.html for details.